ok, not a smart ass answer, his eyes are bad and hearing is bad. What does he normally do all day? Perhaps getting closer to that would be good If possible. also tech wise an Amazon fire tablet might figure in. he could watch nexflix, tv or listen to audible books. They are dirt cheap and Alexa enabled. Get a case with a kickstand also. That will give a more tv presentation. These are really Good devices and can do almost everything an android tablet will, and if you get a little more tech, you can add google apps. https://www.amazon.com/Certified-Refurbished-Tablet-Fire-HD-10/dp/B07P7XVLW2/ref=sr_1_3?crid=3PAW7UOZFXXNS&keywords=fire+tablet+10&qid=1656434053&sprefix=Fire+tablet%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-3 my MIL is 88 and completely non tech so we got her an Amazon echo for home so we can vid call her without her having to do anything. I tried to get her to use an iPad and she couldn’t swing it, to complicated. The echo she can manage just by asking.

Total Eclipse of the Heart Safety Dance Barracuda on a different topic Country Music even if you think you hate it, listen to some old country like Hank Williams. He wears his feelings on his sleeve and tells you about how fucked up his life is through his music. 3 chords and the truth.

Scuba diving in Belize.

@Cleetus Farragamo applying your vast 1972 7th grade science knowledge some 50 years later is probably NOT the best way to present your opinion.

#1 grief is a normal part of loss. Many/most people don’t just ”move on” from loss.

Buckle up buttercup… JK hahahaha sorry I couldn’t resist. 😀

Not sure who came up with that list but there’s some bullshit in there. Actually all are suspect.

@DeathofRats-BadgeHoorMaroon agree. They are so damn hard to find though. 😀

Will no one rid me that of this turbulent priest?

@DeathofRats-BadgeHoorMaroon doing your best Nelson Muntz at the dead people should earn a badge.

@Liverpool sorry for your recent loss BTW.

I‘m still kinda shocked that some of the most heartless / hateful people I’ve ever come across could be hung up on a word, any word. Depravity within bounds. What a concept. I know who not to invite to the next coke fueled orgy. Is “bukakked with stupid“ offensive to anyone?

@Liverpool I’m just hiding in the herd and floating with the flock.

We mock the dead, literally mock the dead and their families, but keep it OT and don't use coarse language, we need to have standards. 🌮

Sigh...what would the Bard say? Hamlet: Lady, shall I lie in your lap? Ophelia: No, my lord. Hamlet: I mean, my head upon your lap? Ophelia: Ay, my lord. Hamlet: Do you think I meant country matters?

So some ugly and hateful comments are more ugly and hateful than others? Or maybe it’s to others? I’m not not sure it’s not disingenuous to be part of a site that exists to do things most people would consider to be at least rude and for many downright ugly and hate filled. Wasn‘t it Thumper that taught us if you can’t say something nice, say nothing at all. Pretty sure he would be inclusive of dead, southern, Trump loving, christian, anti-vaxxers. Most of the comments here are designed to hurt other peoples feelings. I can’t see how anyone can honestly think their own foibles won’t indirectly be mentioned at some point. We all share at least something in common with a lot of these AVers in fact the only safe assumption we can make is that we don’t share the position on vaccines. If that’s the yardstick then that’s the only actual place to comment on. Then the catharsis and schadenfreude of death there isn’t quite as sweet.