You don't discover you're trans, you know from an early age who you are, and it's when you go to a physician and start taking hormones that you can then say you are transgender. Before that, all you are is a scared individual not knowing how you will solve this dilemma of being one person in your head and another in body. No one is born transsexual/gender. That's the cubby hole the medical profession puts you in after you take hormones, when really, all they want is to be the man or woman they really are. They don't want a tag on them pointing at their name or sexual parts any more than anyone else does. People who have changed their gender are gay, bi or straight, just like all other people. 😶😐😎